Loving Yourself
We've been brought up believing that we must behave in certain ways heavily influenced by our families, culture, religion, etc. It is very important that we must learn to love who we are and accept what we love.
It is healthy to accept our sexual desires. Having sexual feelings are natural and we should embrace these feelings.
A friend of mine had recommended the following test for me and my partner to do. Why not have a go to get a better understanding about yourself as well as your other half. My friends and I had quite an interesting discussions comparing our test results.
http://bdsmtest.org/r/A3m38Ly2
Here's mine and my partner's. We have a fantastic love life and our test results were inline with our compatibility.
Alternatively, for some bedtime light readings. You can always read up on other intimacy challenges and quiz before/after trying the online ones.
https://amzn.to/43WKQjM